3 Popular Money Moves That Could Actually Be Hurting You

I think one of the reasons I fell in love with personal finance
is that like all other stems of math, there seemed to always be just one right solution. In high school, I could BS my way through a written English exam with the best of them, but a math test? You had to know your stuff. And that’s what attracted me to this field: I liked knowing that if I made the right choice, I would end up with enough money in the bank to support the life I wanted to live.

However, once I started writing this blog, I quickly realized that personal finance wasn’t all black and white. Yes, it’s a lot of numbers, but there’s also a lot of emotion that goes into managing your money properly. People out there have a million different circumstances that can affect their financial decisions, and those in similar situations may choose different paths that ultimately lead to the same success.

For instance, most personal finance gurus will tell you it’s idiotic to get a tax refund each year, because it means you’re giving the government an interest-free loan. And essentially, they’re right. You could take that extra income from your paycheck, invest it, and come out with more than your refund would have been in the spring. But would I do that? Doubt it.

And that’s why I always try to plan for a tax refund each year. Yes, that’s right: I do what most personal finance experts say not to. However, I personally do a better job of allocating that money towards savings and investments when I get that lump sum than I would if I’d had it in my bank account every month. So why follow what I “should” do when it isn’t going to serve me and my goals?

Choosing the reasonable route or purported “right” path isn’t always what’s best for you in your situation.  Here are three other instances where doing what most in the financial world would suggest to better your financial situation could actually hurt you.

1. Investing In Your 401(k)

Investing in your 401(k) is a great move…if you’ve already got an emergency fund in place and aren’t living paycheck to paycheck. When you fund your 401(k), you are essentially saying “see you later” to that cash until you reach age 59 ½. Why? Because if you pull it out before then, you are going to not only be taxed on that money, you’ll also be charged a 10% penalty. Yikes.

If you’re living paycheck to paycheck and/or without an emergency fund, you don’t want to tie up any savings into an account that you can’t tap into without paying a fee. Emergencies do happen, and getting the employer match in your 401(k) sometimes isn’t enough to make it worth holding your cash hostage.

Instead, I suggest you diversify your investments a bit. If you want to contribute some to your 401(k) to get the employer match, go ahead; however, also allocate a portion into a Roth IRA, where you can pull out any principal you contributed without penalty. It will allow you to invest, but also give you a savings cushion if you run into a money-sucking situation. Then, once you’ve had time to build up your emergency fund, you can start fully funding your 401(k) again until you hit the employer match.

2. Buying A Home

The biggest farce I hear these days is that renting is just a mechanism for throwing your money away, but millennials are starting to realize that homeownership isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. In fact, nearly 66% of those 35 and younger put off buying a home, which has led to the lowest homeownership rate for that age group in history. Yes, if you buy a home, it does mean that a portion of your monthly payment is allocated to building equity. But it also means you now have to pay property taxes. And higher insurance.  And all of the repairs or maintenance.

It also means you’ll more than likely need to get a lawn mower. Maybe an alarm system. Mulch in the spring? Yep. All those little costs add up, so while most think buying a home is a smart financial decision, that’s not always the case. In fact, I did a study on my personal situation, and if I was renting, I would be in the same financial position I’m currently in owning my own home.

Don’t feel the pull to buy a home if the situation isn’t right for you. It takes a lot of money and time, so if you value your freedom and ability to spend your cash on things you value more, renting is absolutely fine. Just be sure that you rent reasonably. No one needs a new downtown apartment when they have a ball of debt chained to their ankles.

3. Getting A College Degree

It used to be the ticket to a great career, but a 4-year degree no longer carries the weight it used to. Not only does that piece of paper no longer assure you’ll get a job, but with the average student loan debt per college graduate totaling nearly $37,000, it’s an even more motivating factor to find a better option.

The world is starting to value those who are creative, innovative, and entrepreneurial over those with the traditional skills often taught at college. It has been calculated that by 2020, nearly 50% of all jobs will be freelance positions, and many of these can be done through self-study or real-world experience instead of through pricey college degrees. On top of that, trade schools offer a great alternative, as they cost less, and the skills they offer are currently in high demand.

If you’re a high school senior or have one in your household, don’t think a 4-year degree is automatically the path to success. Research the alternatives, find the most economical way to get to your career goal, and save yourself the frustration of a low-income/high student debt situation in your early 20s. You’d rather be using that money to travel, right?


There you have it: three popular money moves that personal finance gurus teach that may end up hurting you in the end. Remember, none of these are inherently bad advice, but they could be bad for you. Focus on your goals and what you value, and develop a plan that best fits YOU.

Now I’d love to hear from you!  What’s the worst financial advice you’ve ever been given?

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  • TnT

    “I would be in the same financial position I’m currently in owning my own home.”

    What exactly does it mean? Are you still paying mortgage and the sum of mortgage, expenses and taxes is the same as the amount of rent + expenses would be? In this case your financial position is better since you can see part of your expenses with your living situation as investment (E. g. you can sell your place latter or rent it and use this money for your next financial move – moving somewhere else, buying another property …)

    • Jamie

      Exactly! Although buying a home isn’t for everyone, and people need to evaluation their living situation, if what you pay in rent is nearly the same as what you pay for your mortgage, as long as you can afford the down payment, it’s better if you own. You’re essentially paying yourself instead of a landlord and building financial equity. Although a large portion is interest at the beginning of the loan it’s not all going away. Plus when you sell with cost-of-living increases ect. you’re bound to make some more money.

    • Actually, no, the sum of my mortgage, higher insurance, property taxes, maintenance, remodels, and other expenses are much higher than what it would be if I just rented. I actually did the math and even with the equity built in my home, renting a reasonable apartment where I live would mean that I would have come out fairly even, and that’s including rental income I’ve earned as well. Again, this is based on a lot of factors, but I think you not only have to look at the quantitative ones but the qualitative ones as well. Home ownership isn’t the best for all people, especially if you plan to move soon or can’t properly manage a home by yourself.

  • Marie

    Definitely seconding the 401k tip. I left college with barely $500 in savings and I’m JUST now contributing to my 401k after 2.5 years of working full time because I didnt have enough of an emergency fund yet. Over that span of time I’ve had emergencies (ranging from medical to important adult purchases I didnt factor it) that ended up costing me about $3k total. I dont know what I would’ve done if I didnt have that…

    When I got my first job every adult tried to pressure me to max out my 401k right away. That might be ok for some people but I definitely agree that a safety net/emergency fund should take priority

    • Bee

      I was going to comment the same thing. A lot of people give this unsolicited advice without considering that people are in different financial situations. It’s definitely beneficial to start your 401k at a young age, but like the article and you are saying, it’s smart to have an accessible amount of savings first! Glad to hear I’m not the only one who feels this way.

      • Anni

        I think the one exception should be if your company matches! My company matches the first 6% of a year so even though I am nowhere near fully maxed out and I’m still working on that full emergency fund I am still contributing that 6% because otherwise I’m basically losing free money.

  • Kara

    I agree with the thought on #2 and needing to carefully make sure home ownership is right for you, but you missed one huge point. Mortgage payments create equity on the property and increase your overall net worth, while rent payments basically just go down the drain.

    • Very true, but with home ownership comes a lot of other added expenses as well, and they may not cover the equity you gain, especially if you don’t stay in your home long-term.

      • That’s the biggest difference – if you stay in your home long-term (or are a financial decision-making ninja) you can come out on top. I just purchased my first home, and am still seeing lower monthly expenses than when I was renting, despite the:
        – HOA dues
        – Sudden need for a shower repair, just 2 weeks after purchase…
        – Mortgage Insurance (and Interest!!)

        It’s all case-by-case. There are ways to own a home and benefit from it, and ways to do it to your detriment.

        As for the lifestyle change, the only difference between buying a condo and renting an apartment comes down to interior maintenance – no lawn mower required! It’s less convenient when the dishwasher breaks down, but I’d be calling for assistance anyway. Same process, just new costs and benefits.

  • katekins

    When we rented, I never spent my weekends fixing stuff around the house or mowing the lawn or pulling up weeds. I never worried about water leaks or mold or broken tiles or dripping gutters or my basement flooding. I never was stressed out about the building we lived in. Now that we own a house, even though it’s in good condition, I am stressed about these things often.
    I do love my house. When we bought it, I expected it to cost a lot more than renting (though I guess a couple hundred of it goes to principle and we get more tax deductions…) in terms of upkeep and general house things we have to buy… and that has turned out to be true. But I don’t think I was quite mentally prepared for the additional stress. And I do think stress has a price.
    Buying a house, especially if there’s land and you previously didn’t have land, it is not just a financial decision. It is a lifestyle change. Maybe not a huge one, but it’s something that should factor in to the decision.