How To Throw A Bachelorette Party Without Totally Derailing Your Budget

By | Wednesday, October 31, 2018

Last month, I celebrated my bachelorette party. I had only been to one or two bachelorette parties in the past, and they were usually very low-key. However, I have known a lot of people who have gone to a lot of bachelorette parties. The number one complaint that I hear is how expensive they can be. So money was at the front of my mind when planning mine. I didn’t want anyone to feel like they couldn’t afford to attend. I also didn’t want anyone to feel resentful about attending and spending more money than they could comfortably afford. Ultimately, I think I worried a little bit too much about cost in the weeks before my bachelorette party. I likely would have had more fun planning it if I wasn’t so anxious about people being okay with spending the money. However, I do think it’s important to be conscious and thoughtful about the differing financial situations of our loved ones. So what was my solution for having a fun bachelorette party that was also affordable for my loved ones and also myself?

1. Stay Local

It’s become incredibly popular to have a destination bachelorette party. And I won’t lie, I was tempted by the allure of travel myself. However, I decided it made more sense to stay local for my party. It was easier on everyone’s wallets (including my own; I’m paying for a wedding in a month, after all) and it made it easier to organize it. So I had my sisters, two cousins, and besties from New York come down to Maryland.

I knew I wanted to go out and not just stay at home, so I decided we would visit a few DC breweries. We were staying local and keeping the costs down, while still exploring fun places in DC. We rented a 12-person shuttle that picked us up at my house. My DC friends came over in the morning and hopped on the shuttle with us there. The plan was to start at DC Brau, go from there to Supreme Core Cider, and then finish up at Atlas Brew Works. We never actually made it to Atlas, because we were having too much fun at the cidery, and only had the shuttle until 5pm.

2. Eat at Home

Most of the attendees to my bachelorette party arrived on Friday evening (except for my cousin, Samantha, whose flight had to turn back). Instead of going out to eat, Dan made us all his famous ramen. Not only was it delicious, it seriously cut down on costs for everyone. All the guests brought their own alcohol with them, so we had plenty to drink along with dinner. On the day of the bachelorette party, Dan made pancakes, eggs, and bacon for all of us. (Do you see why I’m marrying him?). I wanted to make sure we were all well fed before going on a brewery tour. I’m 31, so throwing up on the shuttle wasn’t something I wanted to happen. I also bought a bunch of snacks at Costco ahead of time, so there was an abundance of snacks on the shuttle during the day. After the day of breweries, we came back home and ordered Chinese takeout. Dan picked it up for us, and everyone Venmo-ed us for their portion of the food. It was delicious and we didn’t have to go anywhere, and it only cost $120 for about 13 people.

3. Choose free locations

Of course, renting the shuttle and buying beer cost money, but getting into the breweries themselves was free. Coordinating the shuttle and people’s travel was enough planning, and I didn’t want to involve a venue that would require anything official or costly. Other options could be wineries, parks, nail salons, restaurants (without renting a private room).

4. Offer Multiple Options

There were a couple friends who weren’t able to commit the entire day to my bachelorette party, but they still wanted to be involved. So instead of joining us on the shuttle or at the breweries, they came over to my house afterwards. It was only 5pm by the time we got back home, so that left plenty of time for latecomers to hang out. A good friend of mine is in the process of planning her bachelorette party and she’s doing something similar. We will likely go to a spa to get massages and/or facials, which might be a little pricier than some people are comfortable with. The solution there is that she’s going to host a potluck dinner at her apartment afterwards. She will make it clear that there is no pressure to do both options, and that one or the other is completely fine.


There are two things for you to take away from this piece. It’s important to have a bachelorette party that will make you happy. It’s also important to be thoughtful of other people’s circumstances. If you know what you want most is going to be really expensive, make it clear that you won’t hold it against anyone if they can’t attend. Enjoy!

Maggie is a Certified Financial Education Instructor and financial coach for women. She founded Maggie Germano Financial Coaching with the mission to provide women with the support and tools they need to take control of their money and achieve their goals. She does this through one-on-one coaching, monthly Money Circle gatherings, writing, and workshops. Follow Maggie on TwitterInstagram, and Facebook, and join her Money Circle group! For more information, or to contact Maggie directly, visit her website.

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