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The One Money Rule I Follow When Going Out To Eat

By | Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Here at TFD, we don’t believe any type of spending should be wholly off-limits — especially if it’s something you wholeheartedly enjoy. And for many of us, that includes eating at restaurants. While many personal finance experts will tell you that restaurant spending is a no-no, and we agree that home-cooking is one of the cornerstones of a financially healthy life, we would never tell you that going out to eat just isn’t worth the money across-the-board. However, there are ways to make sure you’re always getting the most for your hard-earned dollars — like following this cardinal rule of going out to eat, courtesy of Tis But A Moment.

There are few things I get more excited about than good food and good wine — but I almost never go out to restaurants for them. Growing up, I was so, so spoiled when it comes to cuisine. To this day, my mom is the best cook I’ve ever met — and I don’t mean that in the typical “oh, the best food is always what your mom makes at home” sense. I mean she uses the freshest ingredients and would make these amazing, elaborate dinners.

And while I probably visit my parents more than most, I’ve had to figure this whole food thing out for myself. For a long time, that meant eating out or eating ho-hum prepackaged foods, for fear of the damage I could cause my taste buds or my kitchen. That said, the longer I’m on my own, the less I spend eating out and the more I spend on the tools and ingredients that let me eat in. In fact, I find myself at the point where I only treat myself to a professional’s cooking when there’s a special occasion, and when I do go out to eat, I always ask myself one question:

Can I make it better and cheaper at home?

If so, I’m not getting it. It’s that simple.

What I Won’t Get

I’m not going to go out for brunch on the weekends with the girls. I’ll never understand how a restaurant can say two eggs, a slice of toast, some bacon, and hash browns are worth $15+ when I can do the exact same thing at home for less than $5. I’m also not going to order the same salmon I’ve made at home a couple dozen times — even though it’s my favorite. The only things I’ll seek out are the dishes that evade me in my own kitchen now.

And this goes double for drinks. Why pay $5+ for a glass of orange juice that might be fresh, when I can buy a whole bag of oranges from my farmers market for the same amount? Or worse, $12 for a glass of Chardonnay when the bottle costs $8 at my local Ralphs. And my personal pet peeve: $5 for a Tazo-branded tea bag and hot water. The instant gratification of having them there doesn’t outweigh the annoyance I feel for the crazy increase in cost.

What I Will Get

Those are no-brainers. That said, there are some things that just aren’t as cost-effective to make in smaller batches. Do I need to have a ton of perishable ingredients on hand when I just need a pinch of each for that curry? One recipe can easily cost $15+ just in ingredients, so they better be things that I plan on using again before they go bad! This means the only things I’m treating myself to are the things that I wouldn’t otherwise be able to, well, treat myself to.


It’s a quick check-in to keep my wallet and taste buds happy – while ensuring that I’m only paying for experiences that are worth it. To recap:

Fancy craft cocktails with ingredients I have yet to hear of? Sure, let’s get bougie.

Sushi, curries, or novel combinations of foods I’ve never considered? All fair game.

“Artisanal” grilled cheese in Venice, California? I think I’m okay…thanks, though.

I want to try the best new things, and I’m happy to pay for the experience! But I almost always walk away thinking, Okay, now how do I make this myself?

Tis is a 20-something recruiter, startup enthusiast, finance blogger, and proud feminist-slash-crazy cat lady. Find her on Twitter or check out the blog for lifehacks and musings on personal finance, professional growth, and enjoying the journey to early retirement.

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